Wednesday, January 13, 2010

How ill will my cancer treatment make me?

Im 23. I have started radiotherapy for lymphoma and I am taking the chemotherapy tablet chlormabulcil. I haven't told many people about my diagnosis and want to carry on with work as normal.





How bad do you think the side effects will get? will I be able to carry on workingHow ill will my cancer treatment make me?
I sat in the waiting room with an older man that had lymphoma while awaiting my turn in the radiation room. He had hair falling all over his jacket, but other than that, he was doing his paperwork and chatting with everyone in the room. If your chemo makes you sick, I found zofran to work wonders for me. The radiation may turn your skin brown where the rays go in. I got a little tired about halfway through my 6 week treatment and really tired right after it was over for about 3 days. Other than that, I was really good, surprisingly. Hope you'll do great.





Jenn, sorry about your brother. Was/is he an alcoholic or have hepatitis c? That's a very rare primary cancer. Hope he stays cancer free.





JamesB gave me as many thumbs downs as he could before I blocked him because I stated he was a teen asking about braces rather than the oncologist he said he was.How ill will my cancer treatment make me?
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it depends on your body. my little brother had hepatacellular carcinoma awhile back and had tons of chemo it made it very ill. he got blisters on his tongue, couldnt eat drink swallow etc. became very frail, he couldnt hardly walk weighed about 60 pounds. it was very hard. but given a 2% chance of survival, he made it, and you will too. just done give up, things tend to get worse before they get better.
Everyone is different - keep an open mind about work.

Terrorist attacks in the name of Jihad! Terrorists have brought good will or ill will to JIHAD word in Islam?

The real followers of Islam and Koran many times have condemned the killings by terrorist in the name of Jihad.





But many think that that Jihad means terrorism. What are the affects of this in the out look of the civilised world in thix context?Terrorist attacks in the name of Jihad! Terrorists have brought good will or ill will to JIHAD word in Islam?
Islam and Terrorism





That some Muslims are engaged in acts of terrorism is beyond question. But these acts are not confined to Muslims alone. Terrorists come from every religion. However, when it comes to Muslims, the popular media often likes to use the term Islamic terrorists or Islamic terrorism implying as if terrorism is associated with Islam.


It is our duty as Muslims to present the true picture of Islam, that Islam does not teach terrorism under any circumstances. It forbids killing of innocent civilians. The holy Book of Islam, the Quran, says: ';If anyone murders an innocent person... it will be as if he had murdered the whole of humanity.';


So, who are these Muslims who commit such heinous acts in the name of Islam? It is obvious from the above injunction of the Quran that they do not follow true Islam. Therefore, they must be driven not by Islam but some other motive (such as hate or revenge) to commit acts of terrorism.


Muslims all over the world, no matter what their mother tongue, greet (or supposed to greet) each other (and others) using the Arabic words, Assalamu 鈥楢laikum which means: Peace be unto you. There is no doubt that some Muslims, while using such a benevolent greeting, carry malevolent intentions in their hearts. The holy Book of Islam, the Quran, condemns such people by saying: ';Why do you say that which you do not practice?'; Such Muslims, therefore, do not represent Islam. Islam has nothing to do with those who commit acts of terrorism.


Therefore, it is wise to differentiate Muslims and Islam. Just as acts of terrorism committed by Christians cannot be attributed to Christianity, so do acts of terrorism committed by Muslims must not be attributed to Islam or its teachings.


There is a popular feeling in the West, and justifiably so, that Islam is a very oppressive and retrogressive religion. But this is based on wrong perception of Islam, unfortunately, due to the practice of Islam by some Islamic countries, notably Saudi Arabia, Iran, and lately Afghanistan.


Do these countries practice Islam as they profess to do so? The Quran, (unequivocally and unconditionally) says: ';There is no compulsion in religion.'; However, we see all kinds of compulsion in these countries. (The Taliban鈥檚 brand of Islam, for example, compels men to grow beard (of certain length) and women to cover up from head-to-toe; it forbids preaching other faiths, etc.) People in these countries are deprived of most of their basic human rights. They are afraid to express their opinion in public against the government鈥檚 practice of Islam for fear of persecution.


How can these countries claim to be practicing Islam when they violate its basic principle of compassion and tolerance? They practice Rajm (i.e., stoning to death) for adultery although there is no such thing in the Quran. Their rulers invoke God鈥檚 compassion, mercy, and forgiveness. By themselves, they show very little or none at all.


So, what is true Islam?


Islam is an Arabic word whose root is silm meaning peace and protection from danger. Therefore, Islam is supposed to provide an environment of peace and tranquility for all citizens, Muslims as well as non-Muslims. It is supposed to protect everyone from external or internal threats and dangers. Since religious tolerance (and respect for other faiths) is among the basic teachings of Islam, it instructs Muslims to fight and to even give their lives, if need be, to protect places of worship of other faiths such as temples, churches, and synagogues.


If Islam teaches these noble ideals to its followers, then why is there such a frightening image of Islam in the West? The answer lies in one word: Jihad, and its misrepresentation and misinterpretation in the media. However, Muslims are no less responsible for this frightening picture of Jihad either. Tyrant Muslim regimes and terrorist organizations routinely invoke Jihad or holy war to terrorize or kill innocent people to achieve their own political agendas.


The Arabic word 鈥楯ihad鈥?means struggle or exertion. There are many levels of Jihad: Struggling to remove poverty; fighting against material and moral corruption; struggling against all kinds of social, political, and economic injustices; struggling to restore basic human rights; fighting against tyranny and oppression; constantly exerting to advance human knowledge; fighting against environmental pollution, etc. And Jihad in terms of war must be declared and must be for defensive purposes only. No covert operations are allowed in Islam. Above all, Jihad must be done for the good of humanity which, in Islam, is referred to as fighting in the cause of God. Under no circumstances, they are allowed to exploit the weak and the vulnerable. That is why Islam teaches Muslims to honor treaties and to do justice 鈥?even to their enemies. It teaches them to establish their system based upon free consultation, justice, and equality. These are the teachings of the holy Book of Islam, the Quran.


However, iTerrorist attacks in the name of Jihad! Terrorists have brought good will or ill will to JIHAD word in Islam?
Islamic Jihad , according to Mohamed and his Koran , is killing / punishing those who do not accept Allah and nothing else .Killing those who accept Allah alone is unislamic. Peace should be maintained among Muslims only.Others should be killed or punished by the levy of protection money in the name of Jizzia - the poll tax as levied by Aurangzeb , the devote Muslim ruler of India .The temples and places of worship of other faiths should be taken over as done by the Muslim rulers of India in Kasi ( Banaras), Mathura etc , just to insult their faiths and Gods.This was not a peaceful act by any ruler when he does it to his own subjects treating them as enemies om account of their following a different faith.!


Islam thinks that Satan can be in the stone pillars in Mecca and asks the followers to pelt stones at the pillars .will not the same Satan be in the stones pelted at the pillars . If Satan can be in the pillars , is it difficult for God to be inside this when the devotee want Him and invoke him in a beautiful idol he makes for the same God ? How is Islam justified in condemning idol worship?
Jihad = Self struggle





Jihad is struggle within to make a better person out of yourself. The terrorist had not only hijacked my religion but also hijacked the word ';Jihad';.





Jihad doesn't mean terrorism. Terrorism in Arabic means ';Irhab';. Jihad doesn't mean holy war either, as holy war is only a misconception of Islam.
I think that one difference between the jihadists and the other ideologies is that most of them (today, at least) say that they are willing to accept other ideologies and live in -- to recall the old Soviet-speak -- ';peaceful coexistence';. Soviet communism has pretty much gone away, as has national socialism. The Chinese are certainly not communists and are more interested in exporting plastic pumpkins than any sort of ideology.





The Islamics, on the other hand, seem to follow a pattern of eliminating anyone within their borders who does not accept their religion, shari'a, and values in general -- look at the Christians in places like Iraq or the Baha'i in Iran, or the animists in Dar fur!





Even in non-traditional-islamist countries like some in Europe, as the islamist become a more and more powerful voting bloc, they are less and less willing to use the ballot for their aims and more and more likely to use finely-calibrated violence.





The islamists -- or at least, those who pull their strings -- are smarter in one way than we are. They know that medieval Islams cannot peacefully exist with the liberal democracy typical of most of Europe, North America, Japan, and Oceania. They know that there is a war underway right now and it will be a war culminating not in victor and vanquished, but in survivor and extinction.
For most of my life, what I knew about Islam would fit on the back of your fingernail. The term ';moslem'; brought to mind things like 'Laurence of Arabia', 'Sinbad the Sailor', '1001 Arabian Nights', or even 'Ahab the Arab'...


When I thought of Islam at all, which wasn't really too likely to happen, since it just wasn't a part of my world, I thought of handsome, dashing Arabian princes, or wealthy oil sheiks, with harems full of beautiful dancing girls.


And that would describe the understanding of most young middle class American kids in the sixties, I would think.





Then came 911. Pictures of rioting crowds of strangely dressed people dancing in the streets, celebrating, as innocent people died in a horrible explosion began to fill the television screen, and suddenly, it became important to figure out why the hell anyone would purposely crash an airplane into a building.





I began to scour the internet, looking for any information I could find on Islam. I even went so far as to get myself a copy of the koran. I have read much conflicting information from many different sources.





I still don't know any Muslims personally...but now, I don't think I really want to. Most Muslims might not be terrorists, but it does seem that most terrorists are Muslims, and, unfortunately, they don't have any identifying marks...at least not that I would recognize. I would even suspect the old Granny in her hajib...for all I know, she could be hiding a bomb under that thing. And who could blame her, if she were, since evidently in Islam most women wind up in hell. She's old, she knows she's going to die...and martyrs do go to Paradise....even if they did pave the road with blood...





You ask me what the term Jihad has done for public relations with Islam? It has spawned fear and hatred for believers in the religion. I know that is sad...but the plain fact is that nobody wants to have their head sawed off...
jihad has bought ill will,only keeping names of muslim r not enough to b muslim or Moreen,Islam is peace then how they can go against peace,if they r of faith Islam where Islam in them,jihad is against our own evils not other innocents,if some body is harming u or ur faith then com in the battle Field give him open call to fight u then i be live u r real follower of u r faith,he to will b ready to fight with u, coming with weapon and killing Innocent open handed people is not jihad it is ha ram,
They have not brought good will to the Jihad word...from my understanding, Jihad means 'struggle' mostly like a struggle within yourself...these people that use this word have turned it into Hitler's 'Mien Kampf' (My Struggle) thinking they need to kill everyone that doesn't believe like them or who are Jewish.
To me their idea of a Jihad makes no sense.A person cannot tell God I am comming to heaven you owe me because I did anything violent or not.To me anyone can be faithful for the ten seconds it takes to explode a bomb.It take real faith to try to live ones faith and help other people live theirs.
ill will. If there is an Allah I'd hate to be a terrorist in the next life!!! terrorist is not a freedom fighter. A freedom fighter doesnt go around killing innocents and using retarded girls for human bombs. It is nothing but a murderer plain and simple. As violent as they are, they are no match for an all powerful being.
They have acted on what is written in the book. Infinity has answered very well and i have the same answer, muslims read the koran with one eye closed. Its time for them to read with both eyes, belief is the base for any behavior.
Please Ivestigate more on Islam and dont believe everything you hear in the media.





http://members.tripod.com/~bimcrot/sv/misc.html
Jihad = effort.





Only perpetuation of false information and propaganda has promoted jihad to mean ';holy war.';
It means holy war.
misconception within non muslims. thanks to medias.





terrorist are brutal group of maniacs and don't represent any religion.





hope this helps u
the affect = muslims get henpecked as crazy suicidal murders





even though they aren't.
Well what do you think the effects are? People see it as insanity or even criminal. All religions have their crazies.
I guess maybe you good muslims should declare jihad on the bad muslims.

Do you still harbor ill will toward conservatives?

If so, why? How do you put your ill will into practice?


No rants please.Do you still harbor ill will toward conservatives?
So it's open season on conservatives, is it? How nice. This coming from the party of ';tolerance'; and 'respect for other's opinions';. I guess liberals respect everybody's opinions as long as you agree with them on top of mind issues. Do you still harbor ill will toward conservatives?
As a conservative, it doesn't bother me a bit. In fact, it's mutual. I do harbor ill will against the left and despite the election of a Marxist to the highest position in the land I will continue to fight for a return to an America that is self sufficient, self supporting, self reliant, free and independent. An America where a bloated, inefficient government is not seen as the solution to all our problems or the source of our personal prosperity. In short, an America that was the vision of our founding fathers.






I'm guessing this question was directed at liberals. I am a conservative and I have ill will against the way the republican party has gone. I feel the conservative party during the Bush administration has abandoned its foundation and principals.


Leaving true conservatives that believe in smaller government and the constitution hanging in the wind. As far as putting my ill will into practice I did that by voting:)
Yes. For the past 8 years I have been called a traitor, a coward, an idiot, insane, a pervert, a baby-killer, a terrorist-lover, a latte-drinking sushi-loving cream puff, a moonbat, accused of initiating class warfare, accused of being a terrorist, threatened with death (Ann Coulter), threatened with arrest (Bill O'Reilly), etc.





I am freakin' tired of the extremist rhetoric. And I think America is, too.





As for how I will put my ill will into practice? Well, I intend to suppress a great deal of it. The rest I'm channeling into monetary contributions to my favorite liberal organizations, Planned Parenthood and Amnesty International.
I do because of all the horrible bans on gay marriage and the ban on gays being able to adopt or foster child. I can't believe that on the same day that the first African-American became president there is another group of Americans having their rights stripped away in such an obvious sign of hatred.





I believe that it is a by product of the religious right's need to feel superior and purer than the rest of us. They then falsely believe it is their ';god given'; mission to treat the ';heathens'; like sub humans.





Well the last group of ';sub humans'; the right spat upon just won the presidency.



Have you stopped beating your wife? to quote a great and humorous man, John McCain...





Anyone who harbors ill will toward me can come on over and we'll discuss their problem...anytime...I am not in a good humor these days...
I never felt ill will. I felt pity that they couldn't see beyond their own ignorance. That they couldn't face or admit the devastation the Republicans caused this country and people.
i never harbor ill against anyone








Conservatives are bunch of whiny low class people, who couldn't even once congratulate the democrats for winning
My ill towards them will weaken as they are removed from power. Obama is a huge step towards repairing the division in this country.
I have no ill will against conservatives in general, just against people who never bothered to turn the channel from Fox News once in a while to get a dose of truth.
I have no ill will toward conservatives, I just pity them for their fears and their narrow little closed minds,
Who would hate conservatives? There haven't been any since the 1980's.
No, I sympathize with minorities.
Only the ones that still think Obama is a terrorist.

If a candidate were to judge their success by the amount of ill will they generate from those around them?

Then which of the 3 candidates running for a slot in the US General Election (McCain, Obama, Clinton) would be considered ';winning';, and why?If a candidate were to judge their success by the amount of ill will they generate from those around them?
Mrs. C., hands-down!If a candidate were to judge their success by the amount of ill will they generate from those around them?
Lady Clinton, followed closely by the Big O.

Monday, December 28, 2009

I was recently caught stealing at a walmart, i know in a few days ill will recieve a letter telling me to pay.?

a fine of a couple hundred dollars, what happens if i dont pay? no police charges were filedI was recently caught stealing at a walmart, i know in a few days ill will recieve a letter telling me to pay.?
Your question is? I know someone in this field that can help. Contact me for their infoI was recently caught stealing at a walmart, i know in a few days ill will recieve a letter telling me to pay.?
The merchant would still have the option of making a police report, and going ahead with a prosecution. Another option would be what is called a 490.5 notice in California, which means you would be barred from shopping there ever again. You got busted, okay? Pay your fine and get on with your life.
first place you got caught and should pay up immediately so that you can get on with your life.


hopefully you learned not to steal something from others.


you are part of our society and being a good citizen helps you and us others
Whatever, you must pay the penalty .... for actually getting caught!
Go to jail! When I think people that are stealing need to be lock up anyways!
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  • Can belief in evil actually encourage depravity and ill will?

    I'm talking about beliefs in evil forces, Hell, evil that manifests physically, demons, Satan - that sort of thing. Not just the belief that bad things happen.





    This question came to mind after reading the quote below.





    ';Battle not with monsters, lest ye become a monster, and if you gaze into the abyss, the abyss gazes also into you.';


    Friedrich NietzscheCan belief in evil actually encourage depravity and ill will?
    Absolutely. The fact that evil forces, Satan and monsters don't exist is beside the point. Whatever you invest yourself in, in some sense invests itself inside of you as well.





    A very ridiculous analogy would be the mafia. If you have no interest in it, and have no reason to ever cross paths with the organization, you wont. If you are drawn to the lifestyle, wanna hangout with mobsters, you may end up up whacked out in a wetland next to Giants Stadium.Can belief in evil actually encourage depravity and ill will?
    Yes, I think we take on certain features of whatever we focus our attention on for extended periods of time.





    Like the way teenagers pick up mannerisms from their parents even though they don't want to be anything like them, and the way those mannerisms develop into personality traits turning the teenagers into clones of their parents. The more time they spend complaining about the restrictions they've been put under, and the conflict that causes, the more those restrictions become a part of their lives. Once they become habitual, they are hard to break.





    The other way of dealing with parents is to understand the reasons why they do what they do, which are usually their weaknesses, and to evolve past those weaknesses on behalf of them. Therefore becoming more than what they were, and something new and unique.





    I assume the same sort of system works with mythical beings that you have constant conflict with, like Satan.
    I THINK NIETZSCHE PRETTY MUCH SUMS IT UP !!





    IF YOU DEAL WITH EVIL, THEN EVIL WILL SURROUND YOU...ONCE A PERSON OPENS THAT DOOR, IT IS OPEN AND CLOSING IT IS USUALLY IMPOSSIBLE. THERE ARE THINGS ON THE OTHER SIDE, JUST WAITING FOR AN INVITATION TO INVADE THIS SIDE OF THE VEIL...WHY ANY ONE WOULD WANT TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH UNCONTROLLABLE DEMONIC FORCES IS A TOTAL MYSTERY TO ME. LIFE AS YOU KNOW IT WILL BE OVER, AND A NIGHTMARE OF UNBELIEVABLE PROPORTIONS WILL UNFOLD. PEOPLE SHOULD LEAVE WELL ENOUGH ALONE...NEVER, EVER SUMMON UP SOMETHING EVIL....WHAT COME THROUGH WILL BE DARK AND HORRIFIC ...IT WILL BEGIN TO CONTROL YOUR WORLD IT WILL BE THE END OF LIFE AS YOU KNOW IT !!





    GONE WILL BE THE DAYS OF SUNLIGHT AND FLOWERS, NO GENTLE SUMMER RAIN, NO BUTTERFLIES, OR SOFT BREEZES...NO PEACE OR HAPPINESS, NO RESTFUL NIGHTS SLEEP...INSTEAD THERE WILL BE STORMS AND UNREST, NIGHTMARES OF THE DAMNED, A GRADUAL FORCE WILL TAKE OVER YOUR MIND, AND THOUGHTS...EVERY THING WILL GO DARK FOR YOU AND YOU WILL BE DOOMED...





    SO LEAVE THE EVIL AND DARKNESS WHERE IT BELONGS, LURKING IN THE NETHERWORLD, TRAPPED IN THE SHADOWS....IF YOU RELEASE IT INTO THIS WORLD THE CONSEQUENCES WILL EFFECT YOU FOR ETERNITY.....
    No, you become aware if not already and you avoid at all costs, succumbing to evil ways and following Mr Evil.





    You will find the road.
    My guess would be that Satanism would be dedicated to depravity and ill-will.

    I am ill will arthritis, should my husband and i have equal work loads?

    my husband thinks that he and i should have equal work loads, even though i have a form of muscular arthritis, asthma, ADD, and chronic fatigue syndrome and if things aren't all done when he gets home he gets mad. He also gets upset if i'm so tired that i have to take a nap. BTW I care for our 18 month old in the day, and go to culinary school full time, 3 days a week. I just feel tired and sore and worn out all the time, i feel like it's getting worse and he's just getting more frustrated with me. I just don't know what to think anymore. Are his expectations to high?I am ill will arthritis, should my husband and i have equal work loads?
    Marraige is a compromise, on both individuals parts. Its a give and receive relationship, not a score card. Sounds like there is more to your frustration than chores. Talk to your spouse, to discuss and find mutual grounds that make you both happy. Most couples help each other out. If I have a bad day, my husband is my support system...and if he has a bad day, I am his. I dont need someone to walk in front of me...or behind me...rather beside me. The worse thing you could do is nothing, and ignore the issues. That only causes resentment, and doesnt resolve anything! Good Luck!!I am ill will arthritis, should my husband and i have equal work loads?
    what a dirtbag! don't give him anymore sex.
    It sounds like they are too high. Does he have any ailments? Tell him you are not wonder woman, and to get off your back and to have some compassion for his wife! I'll bet that he not only rides your a** all the time, but also never pitches in to help. He sounds selfish to me. I know because I have a monkey on my back too. My husband.
    You need to tell your husband hes a jerk, you are sick theres not much you can do really if your sick like that and hell no ya'll shouldnt have equal work loads what kind of mess is that? your husband is a selfish jerk and you just need to tell him your sick and you cant handle all the work plus the lil child and school and thats the end of it..
    Your husband should cut you some slack and take the heavier load. He needs to stop being so inconsiderate and man up.
    I heared your version.Let me hear his.
    i think he has no right to gripe. my hunny and i havbe a personal agreement


    if i get behind on what needs to be done, and it bothers him bad enough to say something to me about it...hes helping! if hes not willing to help, he has no room to talk
    i suffer from arthritis too, and i have stomach problems, and we have a year old son, my husband help me at home, and he used to care for the baby too, now his family is helping with my son, my husband no matter how tired comes from job, if i m sick he makes his food, wahs his clothes and iron, and even clean the house sometimes, and he never complains because i m sick, and he is 8 years younger than me and he is egyption,(arab muslim) contrary of what all people says that arab muslims are bad husbands, there s many men here like my husband they help if the wife is sick and they say that sickness and health is from God and we must accept it. tell that to ur husband.